How to Stop Feeling Lousy About Yourself and Start Living a Life of High
Self-Esteem Today
Live Up to Your Potential, Embrace Who You Deep Down Are and Dare to Follow Your Dreams
- Did you ever have an opportunity that you didn’t go for because you didn’t feel like you could do it?
- Do you sometimes feel like you cannot ask for what you truly want or say no because you fear being rejected?
- Do you feel like no matter how good you do things at work or in school you are still not good enough or happy on the inside?
- Do you feel like you are not someone who could have or deserve success in the most important areas in life such as love, friendship, career, finances or your health?
- Do you feel like you have not lived up to your potential yet and are quite often discouraged by what you have accomplished in life so far?
- And do you think you’d have more success in life if you were happier on the inside?
Then you are not in an uncommon place in life. I was there too for many years.
Stuck in low self-esteem and in daydreams about a happier and more successful life.
From Low Self-Esteem and Holding Back All the Time to Self-Trust and Self-Kindness Every Day
Low self-esteem can be terribly restricting. You don’t go for what you really want most of the time.
And it feels like life never seems to really start for you or truly grow compared to the people you see around you.
But this is not something that is set in stone.
I know.
I think my story with self-esteem is a pretty common one.
I didn’t have atrociously bad self-esteem but I was down on myself quite a lot and didn’t feel like I deserved very much in life.
So I held myself back from the success in wanted. I held myself back from trying to live up to my potential.
But then one day I had just had enough.
And so I started searching, both out there in the world and by looking deeper inside of myself. I experimented with many ideas and habits and had both successes and setbacks.
Because I wanted to know how I could makes changes within that would truly stick.
Over the past 8 years things have changed in many and big ways for me.
And now I want to share what I have learned, what has actually worked and still works for me.
You’ll find no fluff here. No vague affirmations or empty clichés like “just love yourself!”
You’ll get just the practical advice, exercises and strategies you need to uncover your own self-esteem, to improve it greatly and to start being good to yourself just like you would be good to your best friend in the world.
What If You Could Boost Your Self-Esteem and Inner Strength Starting Today?
What would that mean for you in the coming weeks and months? How would it change your life a year from now?
And how would your life be different 5 years from now?
If you for example knew how to:
- Stay strong and resilient even through the tough days and rough times we all face from time to time.
- Handle the criticism and negativity people lash out at you in a a more understanding and levelheaded way.
- Stop dragging yourself down by comparing yourself and your life to other people and their lives.
- Replace perfectionism with healthier and happier habits that will help you to get more done with less stress and anxiety.
- Deep down feel like you truly trust yourself to be able to handle life and making the important decisions and that you deserve to have and to get more good and great things in your life.
Introducing:
The 12-Week Self-Esteem Course
The Self-Esteem Course is a 12-week, step-by-step course that contains everything that truly works that I have learned during the past 8 years.
An easy-to-follow program with clear action steps to take at the end of each weekly guide.
And many of the strategies and exercises within it are things I have never even mentioned on my blog or newsletter before.
In this course you will not only find the answers and practical advice for the 5 essential things I listed a few paragraphs back.
When you join the course you will also discover how to:
- Uncover and reclaim your inner core of unchanging self-esteem.
- Discover your factual strengths and weaknesses and a more balanced and nuanced perspective towards yourself and your world.
- Talk back to your own inner critic, stop it before it can damage you and your life even more and then replace it with healthier habits.
- Handle mistakes and failure in a way that preserves your self-esteem levels and allows you to learn from what happened.
- Cultivate more compassion and understanding for yourself and for other people.
- Finally lay off and overcome your own most self-critical and most self-esteem damaging thought habits about how you look, think and how you want to live your life.
- Find your most important dreams and set up goals and effective strategies that will help you reach those dreams and fulfill your untapped inner potential.
- Stay on course while you work towards what you want and to not self-sabotage when you get it.
- Simply stop feeling lousy or negatively about yourself and start feeling good about yourself and happier on the inside.
- Let go of how you think you should be and embrace who you deep down are.
“The Self Esteem Course came to me at a time
of hardship and struggle”
The Self Esteem Course came to me at a time of hardship and struggle. I’d hit the biggest bump of my entire life and didn’t know how to get out of the rut, but slowly, by listening to the lessons and filling out the worksheets, I learned to talk back to my inner critic and find healthier ways to handle my feelings. I’ve retained all the lessons from that difficult time and my life is far happier and richer for it. Sarah Moore, course participant.
Here’s Exactly What You’ll Discover in
The Self-Esteem Course…
Week 1: How to Get to Know and Disarm Your Inner Critic
We all have an inner critic.
It is that small or sometimes big voice that stabs or pokes you. It drives you down a downward spiral or negative thought patterns and creates a bad day or week from one small misstep or conversation for example.
During the first week of the course we’ll get to know the inner critic better and learn how to disarm it so it does not drag you down or hold you back in life.
Week 2: Your Unconditional Worth and Discovering Your Accurate Self-Image
First up this week we explore the worth that we all have as human beings no matter what we have achieved or not achieved. It is your inner core of worth that is unchanging.
The second thing this week is one of my favorite things about the course: how to find a more accurate image of yourself, your core worth and the outer part of your self-esteem such as your skills and achievements.
Because if you have low self-esteem it is very easy to start underestimating yourself and to have a negatively distorted image of who you are and what you can do.
Week 3: The 11 Thought Habits That Keep Your Self-Esteem Down and How to Overcome Them
This 3:rd week we look at 11 thought habits that distort reality and your image of yourself.
These habits can be very damaging not only to your sense of self-esteem but also to how you view your world, the opportunities you pursue and how you allow yourself to grow and have success.
We look at how they work and how you can overcome each one of these habits.
Week 4: The Sneaky and Powerful Shoulds and How to Replace Them
One of the sneakiest and most destructive thought habits is the shoulds of life.
Because what happens if you feel you have to always live by the rules of the shoulds? If you live by rules not set by you and adapted to your situation but that you may have been taught by a parent or have picked up from someone in your life and during your past?
This week we look at how to get out from under the weight of the shoulds and instead embrace who you truly are and what YOU want out of life.
Week 5: How to Stop Being Victimized and Start Being Assertive
By becoming more assertive you can get more of what you want out of life. You can create more freedom for yourself and improve your relationships.
And becoming more assertive will also help you to overcome the fear of rejection.
So that’s why we will spend the 5:th week of the course on how to get better at saying no to what you don’t want and to ask for what you truly want out of life.
Week 6: The Power of Acceptance and Mindfulness
Tapping into mindfulness and acceptance will allow you to you to look at what happens in your life and your thoughts with some detachment, like a calm and wise parent would look at a screaming and petulant child.
And so you become a lot less likely to drive yourself down into negative thought spirals and action spirals and to make mountains out of molehills.
Instead, you stay with your attention in the present moment where you have the power to act and to change things for the better.
Week 7: Being Kind and Compassionate Towards Yourself and Your World
In this week’s guide we take a look at the importance of being good to yourself and cultivating compassion towards yourself.
But also at how important it is to be kinder to the people in your world. Because the way you think about and treat others tends to be the way you think about and treat yourself too.
Week 8: How to Handle Failure and Mistakes and Get Something Good Out of It
When you fail, make a mistake or have a setback in life then it is very easy to start beating yourself up and to make your self-esteem and belief in yourself plummet.
So this week is all about that and about handling these things in a way that both keeps your self-esteem up and helps you to find clarity and learn something from what happened.
Week 9: The Hurtfulness and Helpfulness of Criticism
Criticism – or a verbal attack – from others can tear you down. Ruin a day or the whole week.
In this guide I share the 4 practical steps I run through to keep my self-esteem up when I receive criticism – or when I am attacked with negativity from someone – and to get something positive out of it.
Week 10: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People
The comparison trap is a very common thought habit for many. I used to get stuck in it pretty much every day.
You compare cars, houses, jobs, shoes, money, relationships, social popularity, your looks and so on. And at the end of the day you pummel your self-esteem to the ground and you create a lot of negative feelings within.
Week 11: Dreams, Focus and Personal Growth
A very important part of healthy self-esteem is to grow as a human being. To feel like you living up to your potential, to achieve what you want to achieve and to get what you want out of life. To feel like you are creating meaning in your life.
So this week will be all about your dreams and how to break them down into smaller pieces that you can take action on to make those dreams real in a self-esteem healthy way.
Week 12: To a New Life of Freedom and High Self-Esteem
The final week of the course is all about how to keep the self-esteem momentum up and to make your new habits stick for the rest of your life.
So you can keep growing in a focused and smart way for many years after you have finished this course.
And That’s Not All…
If You Join The Self-Esteem Course Today, You Get the Following Bonuses 100% FREE
The 12 Self-Esteem Worksheets (value $27)
You will not only get a weekly guide during the 12 weeks of the course. You also get one worksheet per week.
These worksheets in downloadable PDF format containing in many cases absolutely essential exercises to help you to better understand yourself, your own self-esteem and how to improve it.
An Audio Version of the Whole Course (value $37)
You will also get each week’s written guide as a downloadable audio session in mp3 format.
It is an invisible help you can take with you, guides you can listen to before a big meeting, after a setback or if you are having a bad day or week.
So How Much Do You Have to Invest to
Join The Self-Esteem Course?
The true value of the complete course [the 12 weekly guides + the 12 worksheets and the audio version of the course] is well over $100.
And at that price the course is still very affordable compared to many alternatives of that depth.
However, you don’t have to pay that amount to join the course.
All you have to pay for life-time access to the whole course is $37.
60 Day No Questions Asked Full Money Back Guarantee
I am so confident that this course will help you that it comes with a 60 day money back guarantee. So it’s a risk-free deal for you.
If you aren’t satisfied that The Self-Esteem Course is helping you improve your life or you don’t like the material for any reason at all then just let me know via email and I’ll refund you in full with no hard feelings and no questions asked.
Join Now and Get Access to the Whole Course…
60 day no questions asked money back guarantee.
This is a digital and downloadable course, you will get access to
all of the content within a couple of minutes.
P.S: I spent many years to get to where I am now. I don’t want you to have to spend that much time struggling to find your way out of low self-esteem, squandered potential, often feeling down about yourself and your life or beating yourself up on a weekly basis like I did.
Instead, get a fresh start today.
Start growing and building your own self-esteem and life towards new and unexplored heights and horizons.
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